Talking About Suicide

Any talk about suicide, dying, or self-harm, such as "I wish I hadn't been born," "If I see you again..." and "I'd be better off dead." 

Seeking Out Lethal Means

Seeking access to guns, pills, knives, or other objects that could be used in a suicide attempt. 

Preoccupation With Death

Unusual focus on death, dying, or violence. Writing poems or stories about death. 

Saying Goodbye

Unusual or unexpected visits or calls to family and friends. Saying goodbye to people as if they won't be seen again.

No Hope For Future

Feelings of helplessness, hopelessness, and being trapped ("There's no way out"). Belief that things will never get better
or change.

Self-Destructive Behavior

Increased alcohol or drug use, reckless driving, unsafe sex. Taking unnecessary risks as if they have a "death wish."

Self Loathing, Self Hatred

Feelings of worthlessness, guilt, shame, and self-hatred. Feeling like a burden ("Everyone would be better off without me"). 

Getting Affairs In Order

Making out a will. Giving away prized possessions. Making arrangements for family members. 

Withdrawing From Others

Withdrawing from friends and family. Increasing social isolation. Desire to be left alone.

Sudden Sense of Calm

A sudden sense of calm and happiness after being extremely depressed can mean that the person has made a decision to commit suicide.